
The Myth of Superiority: How Overt Narcissists Inflate Their Worth
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The Myth of Superiority: How Overt Narcissists Inflate Their Worth
By Festus Joe Addai
The Overt Narcissist Archetype — the Loud Conqueror — survives by convincing the world (and themselves) that they are bigger, better, smarter, and more important than anyone else. But this superiority is not strength. It is camouflage.
Behind every grandiose claim lies a desperate fear of being ordinary, overlooked, or exposed as "not enough."
"Their superiority isn't confidence — it's a frantic armor built out of lies."
The Anatomy of Inflated Worth
Overt narcissists don't feel secure simply existing. Their sense of self-worth depends entirely on external comparison and domination.
They must believe — and convince others — that they are:
- The most intelligent in the room.
- The most talented in their field.
- The most morally justified in every action.
- The most admired, envied, or feared.
If they cannot be unquestionably "the best," they feel invisible — and invisibility feels like death to them.
Common Ways They Inflate Their Worth
Overt narcissists use a mix of performance, deception, and self-delusion to maintain the myth:
- Exaggeration: Stretching achievements beyond reality ("I basically built that company.")
- Name-Dropping: Associating with famous people, even distantly, to seem important.
- False Expertise: Claiming mastery over fields they barely understand.
- Constant Storytelling: Retelling victories — real or imagined — to reinforce the legend.
"The louder the bragging, the quieter the self-doubt inside."
Why Inflation is a Survival Strategy
The myth of superiority protects the Overt Narcissist from facing painful truths, such as:
- They are not inherently special — they must work, like everyone else.
- They are capable of failure, error, and human limitations.
- They are deeply afraid of being ordinary, forgettable, or replaceable.
The inflated self isn't ego — it’s anesthesia. It numbs them from a terrifying internal emptiness.
How to Spot the Myth Early
Early warning signs of superiority inflation include:
- Constant one-upmanship: They must outshine every story you tell.
- Inability to admit ignorance: They fake knowledge rather than say "I don't know."
- Extreme defensiveness: Criticism isn't just uncomfortable — it's treated like an existential attack.
Trust your instincts. If humility feels absent, and exaggeration feels constant — you’re witnessing the armor of an insecure conqueror.
"True greatness speaks quietly. False greatness needs a megaphone."
Coming Next...
In the next blog, we will expose The Two Faces of the Overt Narcissist — why their public persona rarely matches their private cruelty.
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